Creeper? I Think So...Please Comment!!!

Last night I had a friend request on Facebook. I accepted the friend, as I saw we had a couple of mutual friends. Since both of the mutual friends did or used to work at the same office as I did, I figured it was an old collegue that I forgot about (that has happened a few times in the past).

Apparently I was wrong. This guy sends me a message through Facebook. I will sum it up for you here because he rambled on quite a bit:

"I know you don't know me, but I saw you "out" 2-3 months ago when I was with some friends. I thought you looked interesting and wanted to get to know you. I hope you don't think this is weird. Do you? I can't believe I am doing this because you might be insane. Are you? I thought you carried yourself well and obviously you are attractive. It is a crazy story how I found you on FB that I won't go into right now. I don't know if you are crazy, but I guess what I am saying is I would like to find out. Now I am going to go jump off a building - lol"

Now, we have some problems with this:

• We all know I don't go "out". However, I did go out ONCE a few months ago and did a bit of bar hopping to bars where there were a lot of people.
• The mutual friends would be the only ones to provide him with my name or a way to find me on Facebook. I haven't seen those mutual friends in months, but probably years. How else could he find me? He couldn't if he didn't know my name. Now, he says there is a random story, but anyone could say that.
• My Facebook profile picture is one where I have long hair - because I added it to celebrate Niko. I haven't had long hair in almost 6 months. I don't look the same. How would he know it was me?
• His profile picture is a child's picture. For some reason that creeps me out.
• He only has 3 saved profile pictures, but the others he does look SEMI decent and there are, indeed, some tagged pictures.
• He has added about 6 girls on his Facebook over the past few days (yes I did my research). Doesn't that make you think that he probably sent the email to all of those girls too? Perhaps he is a weirdo on the prowl?
• He used a LOT of naughty words in the message. I am sorry, but if you want to honestly get to know someone, you don't jump right in with the F-bomb, you know? You treat every woman like a lady until they confirm that it is acceptable to swear in front of them.
• His name looks fake. Bobbi Raven.
• The subject line said "No guts no glory". Weird.
• He looks a little like my brother Kevin. Pretty gross :)

So, I guess I am putting it out there to all of you. Which of these things should I do:

• He is a creeper. Block him from my FB
• Make him clarify exactly when and where he saw me. Then I can figure out if I was there.
• Ask the mutual friends if he is a creeper. Mind you, I am not really close with the mutual friends.
• Run naked through the streets with urine all over me...just kidding
• Maybe he is telling the truth. Interested in me? Probably not not telling the truth.
• Something else?

Please leave a comment and let me know what you think. I am really curious to see what everything thinks.


I Sazzle because I don't let "I like you" cloud my red flag finding skills anymore.